Bullying & Harassment
What is bullying?
Bullying is repeated and unreasonable behaviour that can affect your health and wellbeing. Different types of bullying are:- Physical: kicking, pushing, touching, stalking.
- Verbal: name calling, threats.
- Social: spreading rumours, excluding someone.
- Psychological: causing emotional distress.
- Cyberbullying: posting of offensive comments on social media, emails or through text message.
What is sexual harassment?
- Sexually offensive staring or gesturing
- Sexually oriented comments
- Sexually based jokes directed at another person
- Physical contact of a sexual nature such as patting, pinching or touching someone without their consent
Psychological impact
How bullying and harassment can affect you
- Low self-esteem and loss of confidence
- Anxiety
- Sadness or low mood
- Fear
- Anger
- Embarrassment
- Poor mental or physical health
- Difficulty concentrating
- Decreased academic or work performance
- Avoidance – poor school/work attendance
Strategies for Children
- Increasing supervision of children when with other children
- Let children know what bullying is, why it is unacceptable, and how to spot it
- Making clear rules and consistent consequences for all children
- Praise children when they play cooperatively with others
- Teach children that telling a trusted person about bullying is okay
- Teach children how to stand up for themselves
- Help children to improve their social skills and self-esteem
Strategies for Adults
- Create a safe space for employees to voice their concerns around bullying in the workplace
- Break the collusion of silence amongst colleagues about the bully’s behaviour and its effects on victim(s)
- Offer the bully every assistance possible to improve and change his or her behaviour
- Deal with bullying through supervisory support and disciplinary processes
- Model respectful behaviour from the top down and set clear expectations at all levels of the organisation
Make an Appointment Today
If new stressors are challenging your ability to cope or if self-care measures just aren’t relieving your stress, you may need to look for reinforcements in the form of therapy and counselling. At Enriching Minds Psychology, we can help you identify sources of stress and learn new coping tools.
Contact us today to learn more about our services for stress management in Melbourne.
